Having quality time with your wife and kids isn’t something that just happens. You have to make these moments of connection happen by both arranging for them and then following through. Spending time with those you love has to be a high priority for you.
It’s also important to remember that the woman you married is your wife, not just the mother of your children. Never stop making an effort to romance and date her. After all, that’s how the two of you grew close in the first place. Common activities lead to shared feelings and help strengthen your bond.